I am just still so pissed at my ex for leaveing me and the kids for the second time and anytime i have to talk to him i am a huge bitch to him ( never in front of the kids) and i try to be nice at first but he always has to say something he knows will piss me off and i cant help but blow up. Has anyone else went threw that? How do you stop being so mad at them? I have really been trying to be nice to him but anytime we have to talk he just says the wrong things or wants me to feel sorry for him!!!