We just 'bumped into' my sons sperm donor :/ I need advice guys!!
We were standing outside dd and all of a sudden my sis is saying hi to someone so I turn around and it's his gf, she pulls up and jumps out and gets their baby (my sons 1/2 brother, we hadn't met him yet but saw her while she was pregnant) and lets us meet him and my sons all excited but says to my ex 'you're not my dad anymore!! I don't see you!!' and he says yeah I guess I deserve that...umm yeah since last time he saw you was a year ago when we bumped into you and you haven't been there in 4 years so nope, not a 'dad'. So me and his gf chat for awhile while my sons playing w their baby and she let's me know he didn't want her to stop. They live an hour away but just moved 1/2 mile down the street. My ex says yes he's gonna be there, blah blah they invite him over today. They say he can come visit when I need a break or whatever but I'm so scared he's gonna get hurt again :( he said the same ish last year but never started coming around. Idk what to do cuz I'm not gonna be the one to keep him away but I need to protect my baby! Oh and he tells his gf 'he is well taken care of and always has been, she does do a good job doing it all by herself and always has' umm I wanted to PUNCH him and what does he think?? My baby's gonna suffer bc of his stupid actions?? I'm gonna dress him in rags bc he doesn't pay?? Ughh
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