I posted previously about my mom moving in her new internet bf after two weeks. I know alot of you told me that I was too involved in her relationship. I'm just so upset I don't know what to do. From the last post, I said she moved him in. I told her prior to that, that I didn't want him to meet my DD until I did. I also told her that I didn't feel comfortable meeting him because I wanted to give him a fair chance. Fast forward until the night she is supposed to watch my DD. She texts me while I"m in school and tells me that "J" is here too. I was so angry. I thought I made it clear what I wanted and she was going to respect them. When I walked in the door they both put their heads down because they knew how mad I was. I was polite and respectful, and I called her the next day to discuss it. She flipped her lid. Told me that I was a crappy mom (not worded like that, but made her point well) and I told her she could watch my DD but not with him around. She screamed and told me that I was taking her grandaughter away. We fought for two days and now its just awkward. I don't have anything to say to her. My brother finally found out and he texted me and was enraged. He is so angry with her and even more so when I told her what happened with me, her and the new bf. I talked to him and his wife today and they told me that during a phone conversation that she had on speaker with her new bf she told them "I don't care who likes what I'm doing, I've made my decision, and if anyone doesn't like it, I don't need them. I just need him. I love him and we are happy together." This hurts my feelings incredibily. The only person she needs is him?? I knew she picked her guys over my brother in the past, but this is the first time she's done it to me. It is devastating. I texted her yesterday, she got back to me today, and I called her tonight and she just isn't answering the phone. I am at a loss. I feel like trash she just set out on the curb. SHe told my sister in law that they were going on a trip in the next few weeks. Thats why I called her..she was planning on watching my DD and I need to find alternative arrangements anyways, but I wanted to confirm that she wasn't helping me anymore. I don't know if I'm looking for advice so much as just wanting to vent.