My daughter looks more like her daddy in my opinion. and earlier she would NOT go to sleep and just wanted to suck her pacifire and lay in mylap staring at my face... she had the same expression on her face her dad always used to give me and since she has his features I couldn't even look at her without crying. Normally I let her sleep with me but now I am upset and can't sleep and had to put her in the bassinet.
Luckily I am not getting overly depressed seeing as I was already diagnosed with postpartum depression and had been in the E.R. for it. but this is making me wonder if she will always make me cry like this... or is it just because of my depression and anxiety mixed with hormones?
I am obviously not over him, so please no "just forget him" advice because it really is no help at all.
i think you need to see help from your doctor if this is making you so sad you are unable to care for a 3 week old. sounds like ppd.
I'm sure it'll pass. Just remember that she's your daughter, and how much you love her. My son looks just like his Dad but it doesn't bother me. Because he is not his Dad..he's a much better person.
as she gets older she will have her own personality and it will get easier and easier because you will know her as a an individual person I know its hard hang in there
My STBXH
- RoseBud93
on Nov. 19, 2012 at 6:54 AM