And I am talking about my own. All my life I have been attracted to black men. I married a white man because my mother was so racist and I was all about pleasing her back then. After my divorce I never dated another white man because I have never wanted to. Up until today I thought that it was only my mother who was racist in my family, but I went to the store with my cousin and she made a horrible comment to me. She said that something was twisted in my brain because I only date black men, that it isn't natural. Not natural?! I am not running around dating another species! WTH?!