I am now officially a "single mom" and I am having trouble at bedtime with my son. He is one who will fight sleep until it is impossible or he is forced to slow down. At bedtime, I have started the BAD habit of laying with him...I know, I know. Bad Mom! He went from a crib to a queen size bed. However, the nightly beating I take of him kicking, sometimes hitting, games of steamrolling, eye poking, etc, are taking their toll. I cannot resort to spanking him/yelling EVERY night, but yet if I leave the room, he just comes out after me. I need some help.
I've tried reading him stories, having him watch his suffed animals so they don't "escap", I've tried sitting on a chair...sometimes the chair works, sometimes it doesn't. I've left him in his room and he has cried himself to sleep a few times-but this was only when he'd stay in the room. Aside from putting a gate up in the doorway I'm not sure what else to do. Help!



I have to tell ya...as a single mom, I went through this too...I had classes and work t o go to in the morning and fighting all night to keep a toddler in his room wore me out...I finally put a mattress on the floor in my room and it worked nicely...I would slowly move the mattress out of my room a bit at a time and finally, my son was back in his room..it took a long while but we both got sleep...I say, in the end, just do what helps you all get through it. He will not be in your room as a teen, I can tell you that...just do what works for you

Quoting amomynous_j:why is it bad to lay with him? if that's what works, that's what works. i lay with both my kids to get them to sleep.

Thanks for ALL your help-you've given me a few new ideas. Last night when we were in his bed trying to go to sleep, he was wrestling around and actually bit me. That was fun. So, no treats today and no Fireman Sam when we get home tonight since he wouldn't apologize last night or this morning. Gotta stick to my guns, right?
- 1JeannaB
on Nov. 23, 2012 at 10:33 AM