Hello. I am new here so I hope I figure this out. I am 14 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend decided he wasn't happy and broke up with me. Now he is dating a new woman and it seems he is throwing it my face. I am worried because I am so depressed and feel I am so alone. We tried to get pregnant so I am mad and confused to why he did this. He claims he is going to be a father and wants to attend my ob appointments. However that is the only interested he shows and that is once a month. I really don't want him around because when I have any contact with him my stress skyrockets and I feel sick. I even had to block him on facebook because he was posting pictures of him and her. I have a hard time sticking up for myself and I want to do whats right, but I feel what he has done is beyond what I can have in my life right now. Please if you have any advice I could use it. I wish I could get him and her out of my head and just focus on my beautiful baby.
however, I would let him attend appt and be there when baby is born Aaron long as he continues to be interested.
I'm not are what you want him to do since he is no longer in a relationship with you, there is no need to contact you unless it concerns the baby.
he is doing more than most men and he is showing an interest in the child.
I think you should ask your ob about some anti depressants.
Quoting happymommy1105:
block him pneumonia Facebook.
however, I would let him attend appt and be there when baby is born Aaron long as he continues to be interested.
I'm not are what you want him to do since he is no longer in a relationship with you, there is no need to contact you unless it concerns the baby.
he is doing more than most men and he is showing an interest in the child.
I think you should ask your ob about some anti depressants.
it doesn't have to be the same as yours.
but thanks for your input.
Quoting conniejo75:
If he is stressing her out he does not belong at the appts
Quoting happymommy1105:
block him pneumonia Facebook.
however, I would let him attend appt and be there when baby is born Aaron long as he continues to be interested.
I'm not are what you want him to do since he is no longer in a relationship with you, there is no need to contact you unless it concerns the baby.
he is doing more than most men and he is showing an interest in the child.
I think you should ask your ob about some anti depressants.
I think the best advice is write him an email of the course of a week, this way you can get your point across without being too overly emotional. And explain to him that you are hurt, that his current situation and yours is stressing you out, and although you appericiate him being at the appointments you can handle that. Also get some consulting for yourself, it will make you feel better and start to get a grid on everything. Maybe by the time your ready to give birth you will be ok with you ex being if not, let him know after you child is born.
Best of luck and we are all here if you have questions or concern
Thank you all for your advice. I will take all into consideration. It is such an emotional time anyway I question all my thoughts and actions. I think I do need time to heal before I can deal with him even just about baby. Hopefully when baby comes I will be stronger. I don't want to use the baby as a way to get back at him either. I just think while I am pregnant my emotional well being is of the most importance. Thanks again ladies
Scared to get out of my comfort zone
- tryn2bhappy
on Nov. 23, 2012 at 9:30 PM