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Posted by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 3:55 AM
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Hi my name is Ally and i'm new to the hole single mother thing....... I have one son that is 3 and i dont see myself as a single mother with him bc his dad and grandmother help me out alot alone with my mom.... I'm 36 weeks pregnant with a little gir. Her father doesnt want anyone to know i'm pregnant and says if dna comes back he is the father i will get my money but he doesnt want to see her are have anything to do with her and maybe i should give her up for adpotion.... I'm 26 he is 52.... I just wanna cry............

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Mommyto2LilMen
by Tina on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:39 AM
Welcome.
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Nov. 24, 2012 at 9:03 AM
Welcome. You need to do what's best for you. Talk with a counselor it's a big decision but if you feel that she would have a better life and that's what you want. Adoption is a very selfless act.
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mommy_2_be_2010
by Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2012 at 9:05 AM
Welcome my daughters dad is 41 and i'm 26 we aren't together either.......
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allycat2120
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 10:19 AM
Im not giving her up by no means
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allycat2120
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 10:20 AM
Im sorry. Is he in her life?


Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:

Welcome my daughters dad is 41 and i'm 26 we aren't together either.......

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victoriahearts
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 10:27 AM

Welcome Ally. It's wonderful that your family including your son's father is very helpful, and do what is right for you, not what is right for the father of your unborn child.  The fact is that it took both of you to get pregnant which means if he wanted to keep it quiet he shouldn't have done it in the first place, so you have your child, keep the child if you would like, and fill for child support. Keeping things secret is not your responsibility , your responsibility is to your child. Best of luck hon.

mommy_2_be_2010
by Silver Member on Nov. 24, 2012 at 10:43 AM
Pm me(just click on my name)


Quoting allycat2120:

Im sorry. Is he in her life?




Quoting mommy_2_be_2010:

Welcome my daughters dad is 41 and i'm 26 we aren't together either.......


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