See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Yea I know I should let it roll off my back but her attitude about the situation is ridicolous! So there is a girl I work with, she is 21 and she was dating a co-worker of ours. They "dated" for about 2 or 3 weeks maybe a month times before he broke up with her because she was too "clingy" Everyone in the store knew they went together because she made sure to let everyone know. She's black and he's white so I guess she thought their relationship was special or something.
Anyways, another girl and I were talking about the guys we work with and we started talking about him. Now most white guys I know or have seen or stick thin with no muscles, butt or anything lol This guy on the other hand is built really well. Broad shoulders, muscular legs, etc. I am not attracted to him in anyway I just like the way he is built.
Well someone goes back to her and tells her that I am attracted to her ex and so she got mad. This was all last week and I finally found out the reason she was mad last night. She said that she was mad because she said that it's disrespectful of me to want to date her ex knowing that they had previously dated.
I told her that she can't dictate who he dates after her regardless of whether it's someone in the store or whether it's a homeless woman in the parking lot. It just pisses me off, not because I'm attracted to him (he's not my type and I don't want sloppy 2nd's!) but because she thinks she can dictate who anyone can date based on them having dated her.
What do you think??