and stopped speaking to you during that time, did you call him when you went into labor? did you regret that decision?
I stopped speaking to him towards the end of my pregnancy, he was verbally abusive and we only ever fought so I didn't need the stress. I didn't call him, I didn't regret not calling him but he did call the hospital after I had my son, don't know how he knew and came by and saw him. I'm glad in a way he got to see him but either way wouldn't have bothered me all that much. I cut him out of our lives completely when ds was 2 weeks old and we have been much better off.
I can't answer the question but here's a bump for you
I'd let him know but will stress it that he does not have to be there...Gl
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