It doesn't seem like it now, because these processes can take forever. But it will get better, and you will be happy again. Keep your head up.
Divorce and courts suck, even the ones like mine that were amicible dragged on for months to get it on the books and move on.
Just try and live your "new" life as much as you can without out giving your ex and the whole process too much though I know it's hard but I ended up throwing myself into work and my son to keep busy and not think about it all. It will be over soon and you will start to feel much better
focus on the positive and put the court and drama stuff on the backburner. (as in, don't let court proceedings and etc be forefront on your mind.)
I know how you feel. I'm still having problems with my ex that involve money. Had the same problems with him while we were married. He's been a fianancial mess since the day I met him. Hopefully, soon, I will get my second day in court, have garnishments in place and finally say 'F U' to the ex once and for all.
I focus on my daughter, football, running, my part-time job, family and friends. All of them give me peace.
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