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I swear all I attract are dead beats!!

Posted by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:06 PM
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 I swear all I attract are dead beats!! Ugh, I think every guy I've dated has cheated on me or abused me emotionally or physically. Ugh!! Does anyone else attract dead beats exclusively?

by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:06 PM
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:08 PM
Me too! That's why I quit. Last guy was successful smart sweet and I found out he had a girlfriend ugh
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quickbooksworm
by Bronze Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:10 PM
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Not exactly, but I tend to attract men who are similar. I don't really want all those qualities. So I'm taking some time off to figure out what it is about me that attracts that type.
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ms.momo3
by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:16 PM
Me too!! But i dont think the problem is them. I think its me.
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luckykarebear
by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:19 PM

 I'm starting to wonder about that too!! I tend to make bad choices when it comes to guys then I get hurt. Ugh.

Quoting ms.momo3:

Me too!! But i dont think the problem is them. I think its me.

 

ms.momo3
by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 11:31 PM
Right now i keep going back to the same guy who keeps breaking my heart then coming back.

Quoting luckykarebear:

 I'm starting to wonder about that too!! I tend to make bad choices when it comes to guys then I get hurt. Ugh.


Quoting ms.momo3:

Me too!! But i dont think the problem is them. I think its me.

 

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soaringflutes
by Member on Dec. 5, 2012 at 12:40 AM
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For a long time, losers were all that I attracted as well.  But I have been lucky enough to also have some really good relationships as well.  I had to decide that I deserved better and would not put up with negativity, abuse (emotional or otherwise), and that I deserved to be treated like a princess.  Anything less was inexcusable. 

These guys don't take long to show their true colors.  Decide that you deserve better and you'll be surprised who you start attracting. 

BeachMommy07
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 7:05 AM

That is horrible.

Quoting LifeCafe42:

Me too! That's why I quit. Last guy was successful smart sweet and I found out he had a girlfriend ugh



BeachMommy07
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 7:05 AM

Where do you meet them at ? I'm sorry :(

Quoting luckykarebear:

 I swear all I attract are dead beats!! Ugh, I think every guy I've dated has cheated on me or abused me emotionally or physically. Ugh!! Does anyone else attract dead beats exclusively?



luckykarebear
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:38 AM
I've done that too. Daughters father is a prime example of that behavior. It was my fourth time dating him.

Quoting ms.momo3:

Right now i keep going back to the same guy who keeps breaking my heart then coming back.



Quoting luckykarebear:

 I'm starting to wonder about that too!! I tend to make bad choices when it comes to guys then I get hurt. Ugh.



Quoting ms.momo3:

Me too!! But i dont think the problem is them. I think its me.


 

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luckykarebear
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 8:39 AM
I can't even pick out one meeting place. Ugh. Daughters father was from high school. One was a bar date, but that one lasted five years. Most recent was thru a mutual friend. Another was a long time friend.

Quoting BeachMommy07:

Where do you meet them at ? I'm sorry :(

Quoting luckykarebear:

 I swear all I attract are dead beats!! Ugh, I think every guy I've dated has cheated on me or abused me emotionally or physically. Ugh!! Does anyone else attract dead beats exclusively?


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