Long story short...
I became pregnant with my twins last year and the father was never around. I contacted him a few weeks before thier birth and he said "he did not want to know anything about "those" kids".
When the girls were about 3 months old he called and wanted to meet them, from there on it was a rollercoaster. He would help me out with $ but would NEVER take them unless I was around. In that time his ex-babymomma was freinds with me and we talked here and there,mostly about the dead beat father that he was for not taking care of his responsibilities.
About a month ago he decided him and his other babymomma were gunna be together. And since then he hasnt seen our twin girls. I am not surprised. And to top it off he recently contacted me and accused me of talkin behind his back to his ex...
Will my life get better? Im working full time and going to school. I provide everything for my 2 girls because there is no child support to collect from him because he hasnt worked in a while! Its not fair... and he provides for his other daughter and not for the twins? My girls deserve so much better! ... And to those who ask why did i even date him... HE wasnt like this when I met him, It all changed when i got pregnant..
So what now? How do i cope? :/
Of course your life will get better. And, yes, your girls do deserve better. Even if he's not working, make sure there is a court ordered child support plan in place and enforce it!
(((hug))) & welcome to the group.
My STBXH
- 0124ax
on Dec. 6, 2012 at 1:31 PM