is anyone else out there pregnant and alone with out any support, or is it just me?
how was it with u n ur first"? whats ur story?
isnt it hard? im having a hard time and i feel stupid. i didnt kno the guy very well, we were only dating for a short period of time and then this accidentally happened......he made it clear that he doesnt want this and altho he has tried a little here and there he is never very supportive. he is immature and has told no one that im pregnant. i am 11 weeks.
Quoting kellanns:isnt it hard? im having a hard time and i feel stupid. i didnt kno the guy very well, we were only dating for a short period of time and then this accidentally happened......he made it clear that he doesnt want this and altho he has tried a little here and there he is never very supportive. he is immature and has told no one that im pregnant. i am 11 weeks.
I'm not pregnant, but I'm sure you will get a lot of good advice here. Welcome to the group!
Welcome to the group, I'm sorry to hear that you dont' have much support during this pregnancy. When I was pregnant with my first child, my then husband was away a lot, I end up depending on friends and family to be there for me. And I know find myself pregnant again and depending on friends and family again, but I have also been seeing a therapist since my divorce it helps to talk with someone have someone listen to everything your feeling without being judge, can you find that type of help near you?
I was alone from 12 weeks onward...it was the worst and saddest time of my life. I cried every single day for hours! :( My son's father and I were very close until I got pregnant...then he wanted me to have an abortion/didn't want it, etc...so I was alone.
The whole time was extremely sad because I spent it confused and crying, wondering why my ex chose to leave. My son was born in May. After adjusting the first few weeks, I finally realized that I didn't need someone who didn't want to be there. My son is the best part of every day for me. It's an amazing feeling. You finally realize you don't need the ex.
Please try to enjoy your pregnancy. I wish I did, and now I really regret that I spent most of it in tears, as well as the first few weeks of my son's life.
Having a child is amazing; you'll pull through!
My BD was pretty much out of the picture when I was pregnant with my daughter. He came to like two of my OB appointments, and bought her a box of diapers. He was there during my labor, but he was intoxicated! Now she is going on 4 1/2, and he isn't around. It's tough at times, but there are also good times. Your baby is a blessing, and I'll bet you'll be a great mommy with or without a partner. :)
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