im kayla. im 20. i have 2 children my son will be 2 in febuary and my daughter just turned 5 months. they have the same dad. we were on and off for 4 years(abusive relationship). we split when i was about 2-3 months pregnant with my daughter because we were fighting that hed rather waste his money on his boys and fetting high then taking me to the doctor well he got mad and i was holding my son and threw me into a wall. i was still holding my son. i left a week later. as soon as i could. then when i was about 6-7 months preganant we were trying to make it work. he was not there my whole pregnancy with my daughter was not there when i delivered or anything. so about 7 months ago i quit hearing from him. i was told once my daughter was born there had to be 6 months no contact to get his rights removed. well today he texted me! he said. "hey its sonny. how are you? how are our beautiful children? i bet Damian is huge and i bet our daughter is beautiful. what is her name?" i replied "MY children are beautiful and doing amazing no thanks to you. bye" i mean should i try and talk to him? im mad he even contacted me! he has done nothing not even bought one box of wipes since my son was 8 months!!!! he knew my due date, my daughter is 5 months and just now contacting me like he cares! i mean im just to the point now i no longer miss him or feel i need him! hes never offered to even help financially nor has he seen them. i think he expects me to run back to him. but for what? for him to beat me? to controll me? possibly hurt my kids?
also how do i go about filing for abandonment, full custody, rights removal, child support?
As far as having contact wit him idk...in my situation I kept trying to get my bd to c my daughter but it's kind of just been off and on but we are getting a long very well and have talked about possibly getting back together so idk...do what u think is best but with ur bd being abusive I would say don't let him be around his kids because you dnt want them in any harm.
Stay strong momma, you are doing the best thing for you and your babies. As a mother you need to protect them and yourself. They are beautiful!
take care of your kids and yourself !!! people like that dont change dont go back to him or let him close he will indeed hurt you and possibly your children he has very poor judgement to push you but to push you with a child in your arms...he doesnt care do what you can to hve him removed permanently from their lives unless he gets help or its supervised just my opinion Ive been there
Honestly I would consult a laywer and get there advice. Good luck to you!!! :))
i know they dont change i kept going back because he said hed change. it just got worse. it started with im sorries i never meant to hurt you to where he was stomping me, smashing my head into mirrors and telling me he was going to kill me. the day he put my son in the situation i was done for good. hes not on the birtth cert. cause he chose not to show up either time. i dont want him back or in my or my kids life. cause if he ever put hands on them id be in prison for too long. my main concern is he willl fight for rights or visitation. he hasnt tried yet i mean he doesnt even call for my kids first xmas or bday. he hasnt even bought wipes since i left. hes never met his daughter nor does he know her name. he knew my due date. he hit me up yestesteriday and my daughter is 5 months. we have 2 domestic violence cases in az state took over so i couldnt drop them. they hv pics. he also has a crimminal background for marijuana/ driving under the influence/ perifanalia/ agression towards an officer/ concealed weapon. uhhhh im so mad he even has the nerve to claim them as his children! he never changed a diaper, made a bottle, fed him, gave him a bath, woke up with him! i did it all! it i asked for help he told me its your job!
Quoting Jazmyn1
take care of your kids and yourself !!! people like that dont change dont go back to him or let him close he will indeed hurt you and possibly your children he has very poor judgement to push you but to push you with a child in your arms...he doesnt care do what you can to hve him removed permanently from their lives unless he gets help or its supervised just my opinion Ive been there
Abortion
- 2DsMommy1112
on Dec. 7, 2012 at 8:13 PM