SOOOOO Just found out my daughter's father spent $15,000 on new 'toys' for himself in one day, including a 4runner and snow mobile for his house that hes renting in tahoe after he goes on vacation for a month and a half and rents houses all over Hawaii.... and he wants to give me shit over more then $500 a month? Oh FUCK that, I've been WAY to nice and at this point I'm just being taken advantage of. I've gone out of my way to make it easy for him to see his daughter, and he is just screwing her over in more ways then one. So I'm OVER it I'm filing for full custody, and if he wants to fight me then he can go ahead and do that. He doesn't deserve custody, and I refuse to get screwed by someone in the future when he is just trying to get out of payments for a kid that he says he 'loves'
I still stand by that he can come and see her whenever he wants, and if for some reason her and I make it out to California, then by all means I'll be happy to let her visit him, But I'm not SPENDING money to bring my daughter out to visit someone who can't even pay for his daughter to go to a good daycare, but still can afford the many luxuries that he gives himself. All while he tells people what a bitch I am, FUCK HIM!
I know I'll probably get a lot of shit from a lot of people that don't know the whole story, but I don't care, I'm looking out for my kid and that's it. My daughter should be able to go to a good school, and she should be able to take dance lessons, and she should be able to have new clothes, if he can spend all that money on himself!
The entire trip to California, he didn't buy her clothes or toys or ANYTHING! He just took her to her friend's house and let his friend babysit, while he went 'shopping' for new toys. I'm over it, I'm looking out for my kid and anybody who can't see that is an egg sucker...(haha I like that term)
Sorry to Bitch, I'm just really over this bullshit...
(note according to some mutual friends he made about $125,000 this year, but all under the table... yes I'm getting screwed)