So, where I live, instead of visitation, it is called "parenting time".
In either case - here is my gripe:
My kids are 5 and 7. They have a 2-week Winter Break which is great. By law - I have to split these two weeks evenly with the non-custodial parent (their "dad"). We had agreed that I would get 12/24-12/30 and that he would get 12/31-1/6. He had them all week last year for Christmas and I put my foot down this year and said it is MY year to get them for Christmas (all day/week).
He sends me a text today, after I had already made plans for 12/24-12/30 with my kids and my family - that he wants them earlier.
I struggled a bit with a response but I decided NO - we had agreed what we had agreed (I have all of this in texts) and I have already made plans for my week.
Am I being unreasonable? Or am I expecting too much for this adult child to keep their word?
Any other Mom's out there in the same situation? He can NEVER follow through on anything... and I am so tired of having to conform to him.