my son's father took my son away from me a couple years ago because of false acusations and lies about me and the guy i was dating at the time. im no longer with that man and i have been taking notes for 2 years waiting for the day where i can take my son back. im scared and not sure what to say to the judge if he asks me anything. i want to make sure the judge knows that i am a better parent then his father. i dont want it to be a father bash. i want my son back and im scared im going to loose. any advice?