This question has been running through my head for a long time now. I got pregnant with my son and his father an I split up before he was even born. And it stayed that way. (yes he is an active part of Jiovonni's life, not a dead-beat) but when my son was younger I started dating this other guy. We've been dating for quite some time. And we're pregnant together. But, he's always around and he loves my son as if he were his own. My boyfriend doesn't make an decisions for my son.. He just kind of hangs around when Jiovonni is at my house.. I'm a little confused. Does this make me a non-single mommy?