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Posted by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:36 PM
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I got invited to go dancing tonight by an old friend. More like a fwb. He asked me on Sunday but I have not heard from him today. I am waiting for him to text, but nothing yet. It is 7:30pm. Should I text him? I don't usually initiate conversations for fear of being rejected. Major self esteem issue. So, should I wait and see if he texts me or should I? What do I say? Help.

I don't want to sound desperate or needy.

Eta: well ladies he forgot. I txted him with you forgot about me. He texted back and said fuck, so so sorry raincheck pls. And then asked if I would do dinner. He wants to go tomorrow but I can't. Would you goout to dinner another day after he forgot?
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Mommyto2LilMen
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:37 PM

i would text him...good luck. 

PumpkinSpice8
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:48 PM
I would wait until he texts.... And then say "no, maybe another time." If you guys were suppose to go out, solid plans should have made, say, yesterday.
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by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:55 PM
This is what I was thinking. I am going to wait.


Quoting PumpkinSpice8:

I would wait until he texts.... And then say "no, maybe another time." If you guys were suppose to go out, solid plans should have made, say, yesterday.

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mytrueloveS
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 10:57 PM

I would wait for him to text me.  

Robsessed98
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 11:04 PM
Id text him
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MamaHens3
by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 11:36 PM

If you two are cool, can talk relaxed. Txt him a message, like forget about me? LOL. If not something like you ask a girl out, get dolled up and get rejected? 

I guess I'm just a goof like that though, I goof with my bf if he was suppose to come over. An he seems to take forever, I txt you forget about me? LOL. 

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by on Dec. 20, 2012 at 11:49 PM
He was a flame from many years ago. We just reconnected a few weeks ago so its still kind of new.we did sleep together already so I don't think its that awkward. I'm just scared of being rejected. What if he did forget. This is very frustrating.


Quoting MamaHens3:

If you two are cool, can talk relaxed. Txt him a message, like forget about me? LOL. If not something like you ask a girl out, get dolled up and get rejected? 

I guess I'm just a goof like that though, I goof with my bf if he was suppose to come over. An he seems to take forever, I txt you forget about me? LOL. 


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LifeCafe42
by on Dec. 21, 2012 at 8:37 AM
Ok he forgot we all do a little disappointing but do dinner set up a time
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