Tell me at least ONE thing you like/liked about your ex.

[moosesmom]

Your answer can't be "nothing" or "I don't like anything about him" even though I know you want to say it. LOL! But we were attracted to these men at some point in our lives. Something that they did or said made us fall in love (or lust ;-). So if you could name at least one good quality about your ex what would it be?

[raegan1221]

 No kidding..that's a rare man who actually wants to talk. Hard to come by.

Quoting moosesmom:

A lot of men don't do that so well. Great quality.

Quoting Mama_Gillogley:

his ability to talk things through- even if it was just talk and his actions never followed through... we had some really good conversations. and the sex... the sex was like... earth shattering. frick.

 

[stickyfingers]

he was jealous of my son from a previous marriage. he was abusive to him.

Quoting moosesmom:

:-( what happened?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was a hard worker and had a great job. he loved me

[moosesmom]

Oh wow :-(

I'm so glad you've moved on from that situation.

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was jealous of my son from a previous marriage. he was abusive to him.

Quoting moosesmom:

:-( what happened?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was a hard worker and had a great job. he loved me

[moosesmom]

How's your son doing now?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was jealous of my son from a previous marriage. he was abusive to him.

Quoting moosesmom:

:-( what happened?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was a hard worker and had a great job. he loved me

[starry_mom]

one thing my son's dad did while I was pregnant with my son and too big to do it myself was he would shave me while we took showers... that was nice, especially missing it now that I am pregnant again... with my daughters dad, he was confident... I mean he really proved it when he was confident enough to bring a woman home from the bar while I was "asleep" in our room...

[moosesmom]

WHAAAAAAT?!?

Quoting starry_mom:

one thing my son's dad did while I was pregnant with my son and too big to do it myself was he would shave me while we took showers... that was nice, especially missing it now that I am pregnant again... with my daughters dad, he was confident... I mean he really proved it when he was confident enough to bring a woman home from the bar while I was "asleep" in our room...

[stickyfingers]

he is okay now. he is 18 and done with school and held a job for two years now and just moved out. he is trying hard to be independant but you know how its tough when u first start out and it seems like everything goes wrong. he will get it. hes strong. i help as much as i can.

Quoting moosesmom:

How's your son doing now?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was jealous of my son from a previous marriage. he was abusive to him.

Quoting moosesmom:

:-( what happened?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was a hard worker and had a great job. he loved me

[stickyfingers]

me too. it took me a long time...i had three kids with him. i believed a lot of the church stuff about how it was bad to divorce and pray he will change...he never did...he was sick in the head

Quoting moosesmom:

Oh wow :-(



I'm so glad you've moved on from that situation.

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was jealous of my son from a previous marriage. he was abusive to him.

Quoting moosesmom:

:-( what happened?

Quoting stickyfingers:

he was a hard worker and had a great job. he loved me

[mhaney03]

Sense of humor

[Mama_Gillogley]

yes, and then he bought me nice shiny new things, like a fancy watch and new panties to replace my old fallen apart ones... but THEN he got a say in what i wore and how i wore it and then there was the fact that he never smiled, always was sad and angry... he also asked me to marry him and right after i finally accepted (we'd only been dating a few months so i waited a couple of months before accepting) he changed his mind and didn't wanna be engaged. just... a freakin emotional roller coaster! and i'm already a full-time single mom going to school for nursing. too much for me sadly. maybe some girl with more paitence will snatch him up and make him happy.

Quoting moosesmom:

A lot of men don't do that so well. Great quality.

Quoting Mama_Gillogley:

his ability to talk things through- even if it was just talk and his actions never followed through... we had some really good conversations. and the sex... the sex was like... earth shattering. frick.