Father deciding he wants to part of my daughter's life, after 4 years of not trying...
So my daughter's father after 4 years has now been calling and wants Bethany to know who he is. The problem I'm having is, since I left him when Beth was 7 months old, he has harassed me, threatened me allowed his new wife to do the same, once that stopped and I took him to court for child support it was calls to curse me out about taking his money.
So about a month ago he called me on a good note, saying he wants to be civil and be part of Bethany's life. I told him I wasn't sure due to the fact he's only shown interest in calling when it has to do with child support taken his money. He's called like 4 times and it's been all at night, then asking how she's doing and now wants to skype I'm not sure if I want that to happen.
My gut doesn't trust him and I dont want Bethany getting to know him if he's going to disappear again and not contact us for another couple of years. Should I give him a chance or hold off and not allow him to talk to her until time passes and he shows real interest in getting to know her???