I have been separated since September - husband decided after 19 years he didn't want to be married. So there is visitation, child support, new job, child rearing by myself, major budgeting, just a new way of life thrust upon me. I am so mad at my husband and truth be told, I'm mad at my two boys (9 and 14) sometimes because they aren't mad at their dad for putting us all through all this upevil. I don't know what to do with all this anger!!!! Of course I can't direct it at my sons - it's their dad and I want them to have a good relationship with him - not for the jerk my husband, but for my boys. But damn am I angry!! What do you do with all the anger? How do you work through it?