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Posted by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 6:38 PM
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DD turned 6 last month and last night I got answers from my ex to why he is not in DD life and I now feel I have closer. I feel I can better answer her questions when it come to "where's my dad".
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Ridingsolo
by Bronze Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 6:42 PM

That's good!  :)  My ds is  7 months and I finally have closure.  It was tough before though, always full of questions.

hollinicole
by Bronze Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 6:45 PM
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6 years was hard alway having the questions and wondering. The questions from DD were really hard because I did not want to say the wrong thing or miss lead her but I feel with the answers he gave I have said the right things

Quoting Ridingsolo:

That's good!  :)  My ds is  7 months and I finally have closure.  It was tough before though, always full of questions.

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Robsessed98
by on Jan. 1, 2013 at 7:39 PM
Thats great. Having closure is priceless.
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LifeCafe42
by Nora on Jan. 1, 2013 at 7:43 PM

That's great.  Don't say bad things to her about him it will push you guys apart (my mother did that about my father) good luck!

hollinicole
by Bronze Member on Jan. 1, 2013 at 8:27 PM
That is one thing I never done. I have always wanted to leave it open for her to come to her own thoughts of him when the time came. With his answers last night I feel it will all happen in time but first he has to get back on track and I have to say thank you to him for taking that step back and not getting in DD life only to make it a mess at this point but he is working on making things right. And I feel better knowing that he has always wondered about DD and has kept tabs on her through a friend of ours, never knew he was.

Quoting LifeCafe42:

That's great.  Don't say bad things to her about him it will push you guys apart (my mother did that about my father) good luck!

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easinpc
by Gold Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 12:26 PM

Thats nice that you finally got what you were wanting!  Hugs!

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