My son's dad seriously doesn't know how to get or stay on my good side. DS turned 2 in September and his biodad has supervised visitation. He's only ever asked for a visit once, I sent him an email with stipulations of said visit - cannot smell like smoke as DS is not to be around it..he had rsv bad and has asthma, don't bombard him right away, give him a chance to warm up bad get to know him, he will not bring anything for DS to eat or drink..my mom will have that with her, my mom will change any diapers that need to be changed, no one else is to be with him..common sense stuff.. DS was just over a year old at that point, I sent dates visits would work and he never got back to me. Since then he has not made any attempt for a visit. In over a year I have only received one CS payment..a whopping 30 bucks!! He apparently made a claim to try to get disability...which I know he won't get, he's capable of working but is lazy and finds every excuse not to.
Recently his sister has been messaging me on facebook, just simple conversation bs..how are we, happy holidays, etc. She claimed she never talked to my son's dad anymore and doesn't have anything to do with him...well, I've kept an eye on her fb just incase - her profile is wide open to view, nothing is set to private. Found out he's now living across the street from her with his oldest son....and then found out he just had ANOTHER baby.. I believe this is number 6..maybe 7 or 8, I can't keep track anymore. So, somehow he moved out of his mom's, to a new town, somehow paying bills to have his own place...yet, I'm not getting any payments. He's over 4700 behind in cs and pushing 6k behind in child care... He doesn't call to tell DS happy birthday, nothing at Christmas, no calls or texts to see how DS is doing...nothing..
I'm planning to call him tonight after DS is in bed and find out what's going on with his disability bs and child support payments. Usually I don't care, but I'm in school fulltime now and over 2 yrs of doing everything alone, I'm absolutely freaking exhausted. Plus I JUST bought DS new clothes like 4 months ago and he's already outgrowing all of his shirts and pajamas..I need him to step up and start at least doing something in terms of child support finally.