My ex and I dated on and off for 2 yrs. we last broke up in Aug. That same day I found out I was pregnant. We decided not to get back together just for the baby but he claimed he would be there for me for support. A week later he got a new girlfriend... He was still going to doc apts. with me and buying me groceries though so as much as it hurt that he moved on so fast I tried to ignore it and just focus on the baby and the fact that he was helping at all. A few months later everything changed. He decided not to continue going to my doctor apts. because he said it was too intimate and that since we were not together he didn't need to be there. He also moved in with his girlfriend ( after 5 months of dating) and I stopped hearing from him. He will randomly text me to see how I'm doing but it's become very rare. Two weeks ago he wanted to stop by and see me but I said no because I didn't want him to think he could just stop by whenever it was convenient for him. We got into an argument and he told me that he is willing to take his responsibility for our son when he is born and that it is not his problem that I am upset that he is not there for my pregnancy. I am 23 weeks pregnant and have decided I do not think he should be at the birth or even right away after. I am beyond angry at him and I think he would cause me stress if he was there. I also do not want to have any regrets. I blocked his # so I can try to move in from all if this. Need opinions and or suggestions please! Should I not have blocked his #?
on Jan. 3, 2013 at 2:36 PM