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Alone with my little girl and no friends or family.

Posted by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 1:38 AM
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Anyone find themselves in an unimaginable situation with no one to talk to and stabbed in the back by everyone that claimed to care?
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Barblicious
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:09 AM

Thankfully no, but I have felt that alone in prior times of my life - even when it wasn't actually true. I am sorry you are feeling so alone and cut off from support. I hope you can find some here.


charmgirl
by Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:15 AM
Yup me! Except I have a little boy.
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loneventure23
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:36 AM
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Ever since I was little, I've always wanted to be a mother. When I found out I was pregnant, my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me and said, "People stop dating all the time.". I almost had an abortion. I didn't want another child to have to grow up in this world without everything it deserves. A lot of people said they would be there to help in any way.. Throughout the pregnancy, they all disappeared. Stopped answering my calls, stopped responding to any texts. When I needed someone just to talk to the most, no one was there. When my daughter came, I almost died. Then all of a sudden they all came back, but only to see a baby. Many offered help. No one followed through. I have no one but my daughter and once a week my mom calls from out of state. This is the hardest, loneliest time me of my life.
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sirianit
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 10:15 AM

Yes!!

I have 2 kids and now live out of the UK and in the Netherlands. I had no friends or family here. The only friend I made my ex told me he doesn't want her over anymore because he said she was using me.

I find going for a walk every day helps. You get to see people and not be stuck in the house all the time by yourself!

LifeCafe42
by Nora on Jan. 6, 2013 at 11:30 AM
I luckily have very supportive family and one very close friend. My family isn't near me but they do what they can do
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loneventure23
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 1:43 PM
You're very lucky. Thanks for that.
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LoveMyCuties612
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 1:48 PM
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Yep! Except I have two little ones. Spend every day alone with them. :( I wish I had friends. Its not healthy for Ppl to be as alone as I have been for so many years. :( I feel your pain. ((Hugs))
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Em-mama
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 2:19 PM
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I know how you feel. Sometimes when life gets hard and you need someone to be there for you, it really hurts when you don't have the support system you need. I recently cut a lot of people out of my life who I thought were my friends. But they ended up not being the people I thought they were, and I realized that they didn't really care about me. It really hurt and it caused me to not trust anyone. 

I now have a little boy on the way, and I just keep my distance from people and just focus on what is best for me and my son. Sure, it gets lonely sometimes but I have my family and I have learned a lot about myself. I learned that you can't control what others do, you can only control what you do.

I don't know if this helps or not, but I hope it did. It is never a good feeling to have when you feel like no one is there for you. But you aren't alone. I will pray for you! :)

juli2000
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 3:05 PM

Yes, usually when you become single most of your friends dissapear!

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by Platinum Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 3:44 PM
Quoting loneventure23:

Ever since I was little, I've always wanted to be a mother. When I found out I was pregnant, my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me and said, "People stop dating all the time.". I almost had an abortion. I didn't want another child to have to grow up in this world without everything it deserves. A lot of people said they would be there to help in any way.. Throughout the pregnancy, they all disappeared. Stopped answering my calls, stopped responding to any texts. When I needed someone just to talk to the most, no one was there. When my daughter came, I almost died. Then all of a sudden they all came back, but only to see a baby. Many offered help. No one followed through. I have no one but my daughter and once a week my mom calls from out of state. This is the hardest, loneliest time me of my life.


AFTER 7 MONTHS ..WELL U WONT FIND MR PERFECT IN 6 MONTHS ..SORRY NO BASHING.IF THE PPL WONT HELP THY DON'T. DON'T HELP THEM IN TIME OF NEED. FIND U SOME SINGLE MOMS TO HANG OUT WTH .
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