My ex claims to pay child support to the state but I don't believe him. I get cash aid and medical for my dd. he said because of that he pays it to the state. But my thing is we've never gone to court or anything. The last thing I did child support related was take my daughter to the child support office to take a paternity test which after several,Weeks later came back that of course he was the father. I haven't heard anything besides that and I just let it go. Well I took my dd to his familys house around Christmas time . I asked him if he had and money to help with his daughter and he said he gave me 200 the week before and that he pays child support.
He did give me 200 but his mom told me she gave him money to give to me! He denies that. So anyway, point is I don't believe him about paying child support. Anybody know if what he said is possible. Also I asked him how much he pays, at first he acted like he didn't know or wouldn't say. Weeks later he told me 3 hundred something. Which is what some papers I was sent way back on August said that they we're going to order from him think summons papers...
So I called child support office and I asked the lady what was going on with the case. I told her paternity was established months ago. Well, she told me that an order was sent to the court, and that the courts have to set up a date, etc. She told me to call back in a week... Ugh so my ex is such a liar. How are you going to lie to my face as if you are actually helping take care of your daughter. *Strangle*