I have a court hearing coming up regarding my 3 kids. The two biggest things, obviously are child support and custody. We had moved one year this month, and not married. I heard from a few people he had been seen with a few different women. My beef with this is, he has not spent any time with the kids or even tried to really call them or at least take them to Mcd's w/in the last 2 months. Has not given any financial support at all. I don't want to fight at all about custody, but I know his attorney is feeding all this to him.
But I know there are little stuff I should add into this battle, he needs to take care of himself. Example, he does not have carseats for the two smaller ones and takes them without it. And usually does not feed them a real dinner before I pick them up. I work till 7pm, then I pick them up and I have to make them a very late dinner when we get home. I don't know how much to ask for child support. Stuff like that, I need others input. Little things that he should be helping out himself. I love to hear what your experiences were. I would really appreciate it.