About 2 months ago I terminated my kids SD's right but he is now appealing it. He has only seen them 2 times in the last 2 1/2 years. He was in prison from August 2010 to early May 2012, while in prison his mom kept money on his phne and books so he could call and write the kids but he only sent 4 letters between August and December 2010 nothing after. In May he got out and didn't even attempt to contact till 2 weeks after he got out during those to weeks he married some one supposidly so she could have a better chance at getting her kid back and she is now pregnant. Anyways... he is constantly telling everyone that he is going to just show up and see my kids weather I say he can or not. I have told him and everyone that talks to him that he is not allowed to see or speak to the kids. I'm scared to the point my kids can't even walk across the street from school to daycare without me (I get off work at 2 and they get out of school at 3 but my daughter is at dc until the boys get out of school instead of making 2 trips across town). I wake up about 4 times a night and ceck all the doors and windows in my house. I'm driving myself insane but can't seem to stop it. He is just very unpredictable.