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seriously feels like my life should be on the lifetime network right now

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Okay... ill try to condense this As well as i can...

Early November, we took my son to the doctor because he had bump on his bottom. we found out then that there was probably sexual abuse. his fathers family had a history of sexual abuse so he wasn't allowed to see his father and they started an investigation.

A week later i was horribly sick and dehydrated. i ended up in the emergency with moderate to severe dehydration and they found out i have a liver disease.

A short while after that, we find out my son has hpv 6. the strain of hpv that causes genital warts. so at this point, they're saying 90-95% chance of sexual abuse but they have no idea who did it and there's no blood test for hpv. only pap tests and biopsies of live lesions can test for hpv. i end up getting tested. i don't have the strain my son does. i have a different one (i couldn't have given him the strain he has). I have hpv 18, which is the one that causes cancer. my pap also came back abnormal...and with the history of cancer in my family, thru doctor was very concerned.

So i had to have a colposcopy done and they took biopsies. luckily no cancer... only precancerous cells.

At the end of December, they closed the sexual abuse investigation because they had no idea who would have done it and my son is too young and lacks the verbal skills to be interviewed.

Now last night at work i got a note from my manager to contact a person named eve because she wants to help me keep my son. i had NO idea what that was about. i was freaking out all night.

So i called her this morning. turns out eve is my sons fathers girlfriends grandma. she said my sobs father is filing for full custody and she doesn't think its right. she said he's insane and a compulsive liar. she said he doesn't care about josiah. And apparently he tried to run her over! and his gf is bipolar and unstable. i was so glad to talk to her. she said she will do whatever she can to support me and keep my precious baby safe.


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by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 10:54 PM
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otoole
by Bronze Member on Jan. 12, 2013 at 7:45 AM

i am so sorry for everything you and your son are going through, i really hope this lady really means it when she says she will do whatever it takes to help you. stay strong, you will win this.

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