Im having one of those days... an off day. Im a newly single (3 months) mommy of 4 young children 8,5,3,3 im 27. Im all alone here. Some days are fine and I am very proud of myself. Other days (like today) i feel lost. How am I supposed to do this? It is so hard. Ive never been single. I want to get to know myself, and like my self, grow as a person... but! How the heck? I dont want to date, but I do. I cant afford everything, but we make it by. I dont know where to go from here. I also dont know any single mommys at all. Everyone says im doing such a great job. Truth is i feel like im drowning. I just cant wait for the kids to go to bed so I can cry. I dont feel normal! Please help... what are some good 1st steps here? And, how do you all get through the "off days"?