Need some unbiased advice about moving across the country. Help?
So here's my situation. I have two kids. They are from the same dad. I live in Colorado and their dad lives in Minnesota. He was around for a few months while my daughter was a baby and then we moved to Minnesota for a few months, I ended up moving back here because I let my mom get to me because she missed me and my daughter. I was also pregnant with my son when I came back. He still lives in Minnesota. It's where we met and where we grew up. Now things here kind of suck, I live with my mom and step dad and they really don't want me here. They have stopped buying groceries (I don't have a job) And everyone is annoyed whenever my kids are around. They are toddlers, they whine. A LOT. Anyways. I have the opportunity to move back to Minnesota. It won't be in the same town as my ex but it's only a three hour drive and he wants to be part of the kids lives. He does have a new girlfriend. I'm still deeply in love with him. I will be living with one of my best friends. She is a single mom too. My question is, does it make sense to move back to Minnesota? I really don't have any job prospects here and I really just can't get on my feet. I feel like I'm unwanted and unwelcome here. I have someone who really wants to me come live with her and the kids will have their father in their lives. Thanks in advance.