a little backstory
my daughter is 3 1/2 and her sd didnt meet her until she was over 1 1/2. well he basically still has nothing to do with her. he crashed her party (dunno how he knew) well anyways i refused to let her go to any more holidays (his mom wants more to do with her than him) with his mom and family bc he thinks he can bring random girls around to play house with. anyways i went to the town they live in to take my dd to my cousins and let his mom know so they could give her her gift. but i refused to go to their house bc he would be there and my daughter doesnt need to be around him. (i know harsh sounding) well....
she asked me why i wouldnt let them just take her for a few hours or go to their house and i told them bc their son was a deadbeat and she didnt need to be around someone who couldnt be consistent in her life (she never even asks for him just his parents)
hes always telling them i keep her from them. is it wrong to have his parents involved yet tell them their son cant be around her until he can basically grow up?