Hey everyone!! My name is Ada. Well I have and need a whole lot of advice. I was engaged to my fiance for about a year and he has a son which he never knew about until 7 months after our relationship began. I decided to stay and stick through because I loved him and he loved me deeply. However, some weeks before our one year anniversary I found out I was pregnant and shocking to me he wanted to get an abortion and do all these things. But i am my own woman and didn't buy into it. He said if I don't get an abortion, we will break up. We have had hospital visits and everything with being sick and he never came or replied any of my messages when I informed him. I am turning 22 and will soon be a Physical Therapist and just wanted to get some information on how do I go about these next four months to make sure I have a good first year. I am happy I am giving birth into the summer so I can focus on her.
But emotionally, physcially I am really down. He doesnt do anything towars helping me. Rather he in the life of his first child more and disregards me. I have given ip on him and feel he isnt ready to settle and from his behaviro has moved on as he excercices his flirting and men behavior.
Would love some blunt yet uplifting Advice.
Thanks Ladies and Moms,