Freaking out

[RjandMjsmom]

So I just took a test and it came out positive. I didn't really want anymore kids. Now I have to figure out how to tell him, my kids, and my family. I am honestly not even sure how to do all of this. I am figuring I will wait to tell him til after I go to the doctor and get it confirmed. I am thinking that I will wait til after the doctor too before I tell my family too. I am just not sure how he is going to react we haven't exactly talked in almost 3 weeks.

[Cenedra64]

:::hugs::::

[brieri]

 There's a will, there's  a way. 

[labrax]

*hugs*

[Tish_Hughes]

 How old are you?

[heathermarie23]

I'm in the same boat... except mine was confirmed and I still can't bring myself to tell my family... I'm 24wks. 

[RjandMjsmom]

I am 32. The only reason I will have to tell my family is cuz my brother and his gf watch my kids and my brother would end up telling everyone else. So it would just be better if I told them. But I am just curious now a days how long after a positive hpt do I need to wait to get it confirmed at the doctors? With my son the doctor made me wait another 2 weeks.

[conniejo75]

My dr never confirmed it. Just scheduled first appt for 8-10 weeks along. I wouldnt tell anyone til after first trimester.

Quoting RjandMjsmom:

I am 32. The only reason I will have to tell my family is cuz my brother and his gf watch my kids and my brother would end up telling everyone else. So it would just be better if I told them. But I am just curious now a days how long after a positive hpt do I need to wait to get it confirmed at the doctors? With my son the doctor made me wait another 2 weeks.

[Ridingsolo]

 

Quoting RjandMjsmom:

I am 32. The only reason I will have to tell my family is cuz my brother and his gf watch my kids and my brother would end up telling everyone else. So it would just be better if I told them. But I am just curious now a days how long after a positive hpt do I need to wait to get it confirmed at the doctors? With my son the doctor made me wait another 2 weeks.

 My doctor took me right away and did a transvaginal ultrasound to get a precise due date.  I was only 7.5 weeks along. 

[Mommyto2LilMen]

*hugs* good luck!

[RjandMjsmom]

So I just told the father and of course he denies it. According to the charts from the day I conceived, and I know I conceived that day cuz was only time I did anything with him, and hadn't been with anyone for about a year before him, I am 4 weeks along. He said there is no way its his because I am 4 weeks and it was only a two weeks ago we did it. I told him it was actually 3. So now I have to figure out what I am gonna do. I did tell him once the kid is born we can do a DNA test to prove it and can either give up his rights or we give it up for adoption he said ok.