Have you ever had a break up you just didn't see coming? Well this happened this morning my boyfriend broke up with me. I'm still sort of dumbfounded. Like I've been crying but not like I thought I would...and my heart hurts..but not as bad as I thought it would. We were only together for 4 months but he was the first relationship I have had since me and BD split...I fell in love with this guy. Sleeping alone again is gonna be hard..I always hate that part. I think the worst part is he blamed my son for our break up. Yep my 3 yr old son. My ex boyfriend has 5 kids. 4 boys 1 girl and he sat there and said some nasty stuff about my son. How his kids were terrified of him..(now all of his kids are at least a year older than my son except the youngest they are the same age). and how awful my son is he went on and on. Pretty much said he was a better parent and his kids were better than my son. Earlier yesterday when I left his house everything seemed fine..i went to work and then got a txt from him saying he needed a "break," then this morning he unleashed all this hatred towards my son...he packed all my stuff and told me to pick it up. There was no emotion he was just cold...just mean! I'm like you're breaking up with me so why are you being a total dick to me as well? I just don't get it...obviously I could never get back with him after everything he said about my son..who does that tho? Blames a 3 yr old? He said my son always fought with his kids and how his kids didn't like my son. Now my reaction would be to talk about it and figure out a solution. His idea was breaking up and being horrible. Anyways im sorta just venting trying not to cry while I'm at work...anyone else go through a recent break up?