So my ex husband finally took the kids for the weekend after not having them for months due to his living situation. He tried calling me a couple times on Saturday and I didnt answer because I was in the shower. Then I got a couple text messages from him being an a** because he thought I was purposely ignoring his phone calls. When I finally got back to him and asked what he wanted, he wasnt making sense. He said something about messing up our ds medication and he wasnt sure if he gave it to him or not but the pill was missing but then he gave him 1/2 of one (how did he give him half if the pill was missing). Some how this is all my fault. I told him I didnt understand, he wasnt making sense, and asked him if he was high or on smthg (he smokes pot and has used other drugs on and off). This made him really mad! He started calling me a c**t, b**ch, idiot, ect (have no idea if my kids are hearing him). Telling me to get off my high horse, Im not that great, and that nobody wants me because I act like this. I was actually really calm and trying to get along with him because Im tired of fighting but I finally told him not to call/txt my phone again (if theres an emergency I told him to call my mom) and I shut my phone off.
Sorry so long but really needed to vent and need some advice. Our youngest is only 8 yrs old and I dont know how to deal with him for the next 10 yrs. Does anyone else have ex like this? How do you handle him? I really try to keep peace for the kids sake but its sooo hard because hes so immature and picks fights with me over stupid stuff.