help dealing with temper tantrums and horrible behavior after visitation
my ex has been in and out of my daughter's life since she was born. he now is asking for longer visitation. this happened right after he found out from my now x best friend that I had an amazing man in my life who my daughter is calling daddy (did this on her own). instead of fighting him I just said fine. now every time she comes back she is absolute wreck. screaming bloody murder, throwing things, hitting and holding her breath. she never used to do this until now. it breaks my heart to see her like this. sometimes I have to just put in her crib for a fwe mins so I can cry in the other room.
sorry so long. any advice on dealing with tantrums and obvious separation anxiety.