So my divorce has been final since September and ex has stuck to CO 100% since then. I know he was only doing it bc when we had our temp order I used all the times he didn't get the kids against him to show how unstable he is. It has now been 4 months and tonight he calls and tells me he has new hours at work (which I do not believe one bit) and he can't get the kids tomorrow. He said he doesn't know what is going to go on with our schedule now and flat out told me the only reason he has stuck to it was bc he thinks I will take him back to court if he doesn't.
I told him I wouldn't and I know things are going to start to change now. It sucks for my kids bc even though he really is an a**hole, they were trying to build a relationship with him. They already mention how he is not consistent in calling them or answering the phone when they call him.
I'm glad that I will have more time with my kids and he will have less influence, I'm just sad that the kids are upset about it :(