Not sure what to do or how to handle these CRAZY people!
I have alot of issues with the Father of my 13 month old such as he did not even meet her until she was 3 months old. He was not there for me during my pregnancy or birth. Then, when he did come to see her when she was 3 months old, he kept telling me that HE forgave ME! As if I was the one in the wrong and had to be forgiven. (that ticked me off because I was the one with the right to be mad and I was the one who had to forgive, not him). Anyway, he saw her for about 3 months and stopped coming for 5 more months even though he had a court order saying he gets her for a few hours on Fridays and Sundays without me around. He even tried to get a restraining order on me for no reason and his Mother called CPS on me. He also wanted to keep my daughter over night and I feel that since she hardly even knows him and is so young, that is a huge NO.
When he gets his visitation (Friday 5:45pm to 7:45pm and Sunday 1pm to 7pm) it is mainly for his Mother. A little history before I let you in on my dilemma - he has 2 other kids from 2 other different women. The first son he does not even know. The 2nd son, he has full custody of. I am afraid they are going to try to get full custody of my daughter by sabotaging me. I know that sounds paranoid so here is the history I promised: Before my ex (if you want to even call him that since he would never date me) got full custody of his son.. when he was still married, his son was sick and my ex was at work so his mother offered to his wife to babysit so she could get rest. His wife said yes and took the boy to the grandmother's house. The wife told the grandmother that she had just given the child cough medication (he was 2 or 3) and not to give him more until later on. Well, the grandmother not only gave the child another dose right after he got there, but she took pictures and claimed this woman doped her own kid.
Fast forward to last week, my daughter was sick. Since her grandmother has been nice to me, I asked if she would watch my daughter and take her to the Doctor because she had a high fever. She took her to the Doctor and my daughter was negative for strep and flu, but the doctor prescribed her tamiflu because he was afraid she was getting the flu. When I went to pick up my daughter, the CRAZY woman told me that the doctor said my daughter had to stay home for at least 3 days and that I could stop the tamiflu Wednesday (2 days early) if Lexi's fever was gone. She also forgot to give my daughter her ear drops and she had just gotten ear tubes 3 days prior.
I did not believe her about the tamiflu so Wednesday evening, I looked around for the papers from the Doctor. I found nowhere on there that I could stop the tamiflu early, but I did see where she specifically requested a prescription of Rx diaper cream which she did not tell me about so she did it behind my back. I also found in the bottom of the diaper bag, a Doctor's note saying my daughter could return to daycare after 24 hours of being fever free which would have been 1 less day of me dealing with this crazy woman. Since I could not find where the doctor "said I could stop tamiflu" I gave my daughter her evening and morning doses because I didn't see how it would hurt. I then called the doctor the next day to find out that "we absolutely did NOT tell her that you could stop the tamiflu, you need to give it to her until the prescribed dosage is up."
So.. if you read this far, thank you... but now I am afraid that she is trying to sabotage me on purpose. Does anyone have any advice at all on how to deal with psychos like this?