For some reason something compelled me to put up a status about cuddling on my Facebook. Not 5 minutes later I was getting texts asking if I was free this weekend. He's a good guy in general. He had an actual conversation with me and even asked about my kids first. But still had the fight the urge to respond with something along the lines of "My boobs hurt, I haven't shaved my legs in a week, my checking account is overdrawn and the below zero temps we've been having is making my eczema flare up. If you'd like to reconsider, now is your chance."
It's not that I wouldn't enjoy being taken out for a movie. I've just come to this point where I'm tired of the casual crap. I'm a single mom of two, whom I homeschool and I have 3 part time jobs. My freetime is sacred and comes at a price (specifically, the price of a babysitter). If you are only looking for "something fun" I am not your girl. And even on the off chance that you are indeed looking for something serious (eventually. That shit takes time) are you emotionally/socially/financially prepared to become a family man? Because if you hesitated even a little to any of those, you aren't ready. So let's not waste each others time.
on Jan. 22, 2013 at 10:45 PM