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I don't get it....

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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My bf is able to go out and drink with his friends, and I never say anything.  Yet my best friend is here from Japan for one week and I go out to have dinner with her.  He's bitching and bashing both of us on his facebook!!  What the hell!!!  I don't go out anymore due to my pregnancy, and he has the luxury to go out with his friends all the time.  I'm pissed off now.  

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2013 at 11:35 PM
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ckmom2013
by on Jan. 25, 2013 at 4:54 PM

this is how I ended up single....FOOL wanted to hang out with his friends during our only alone time...but when I wanted to do things with my family or friends I got yelled and screamed at...men suck

faerie75
by Ruby Member on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:42 PM

 that precedence wouldnt have gotten set in the first place. i have made sure to spend time w  my friends from the bieginning and he knows he cant control me.

Lia678
by Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 9:11 AM
Start to write down the things he tries to stop you from doing. Only then will you notice if he is trying to control you. That is how it started for me. Remember what I forgot, "what you permit, you promote.". Good luck.
LifeCafe42
by Nora on Jan. 26, 2013 at 9:45 AM
I agree

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

Sounds very controlling and immature.
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hopealways4019
by Bronze Member on Jan. 26, 2013 at 9:53 AM
He a hypocrite. It's OK for him to hang out, but the one time you do. He gets jealous. Some men are controlling,insecure, jealous. Which is annoying and sometimes can be dangerous.
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