Quick back story : met Nov 2011 and he asked me to move into HIS house Feb 2012 and he was in court for shared custody of 3 yo. Move in. find out house is his mothers who makes it known, the child he is fighting for isnt his. Im already in love. His other kids 16 and 20 dont work or clean up after themseles and I became a maid. He didnt do anything about it. They never even lock the front door and their friends were always coming and going. This caused many fights and on top of it his drunk mother taking cotnrol of his 3 yo and not even trusting him with her so she is raising her.
Now I am moving out. I am still in love with him and he loves me but his mother now hates me bc I actually want to parent and teach these children. So Im leaving.
Question ladies, altho I am moving out of bf's house me and him and a trip planned in May for my daughter (7) and his (16). we are going to universal studios, well were, he said wasnt going to go but now he is. we are on the same plane too. My problem is I do not go on rides and not sure how uch fun my daughter will have or if she can go on some w/o an adult. At first my mom said let him go (diferent room of course), but I dont think that is a good idea. Maybe his daughter would get it, but me..IDK Im still in love with him and he is still in love with me and I cannot get all caught up in things months after ya know...What do I do. I dont want to cancel our trip and lose out on money. My mom said change the flight and go somewhere else another time but its $100 each ticket and that is alot to lose too. What would you do?