My kids father comes and goes as he pleases...we have a visitation schedule, but he doesn't follow it. He gets them maybe once or twice a month, and makes a big deal when its a holiday or someone in his houses' birthday. He is supposed to get them every weekend and he doesnt. He doesnt pay child support because he was smart enough to quit the only job he found in 2 years! So I am basically on my own with my babies. Now I told him to either be there fulltime like I am or get lost. So he immediately says I'm denying his rights to see his kids. So I told him he can see them but lets get a court schedule so theres not problems. He tells me F U B#tch I hate you etc. and dont contact him anymore. So I didnt...and I dont anyway because I dont ask him for anything and if he wants to speak to my kids he can call. Anyway he contacted me the next day asking to take the kids and I ignored him because he told me repeatedly and I have the messages...not to contact him, stop emailing him, and never to speak to him again.So I did just what he asked me to do. It's all a game to him smh. I called the family court today and they said they have nothing in their system with him going down there for a visitation schedule. Whew, I had to vent. But I want him in their lives, but at the end of the day I dont because he doesnt do anything or spend time with them. My son is a very intelligent 3 year old and he knows whats going on. I dont put things into his head, but all of a sudden he doesnt want to go to daddys house, daddy doesnt play with me, daddy doesnt come get me, daddy wont come to my house, daddy wont call me. I feel bad for the little guy. But am I wrong for just waiting for a court date to allow visitation,because the schedule hasnt been followed in months. I only stopped the schedule recently because he doesnt care anything about the schedule. I was going to go today to get it modified, but I hate going to court.