Are you a submissive gf/wife? Fwb and I were talking last night and he said that his wife/ex-wife was very submissive. Like bring him breakfast in bed, run his bathwater type stuff. Sometimes she would even help him scrub down or while he was bathing she would sit in the bathroom and read him a book. (wtf?) For me I can't be controlled in that way and it may not even be control but I don't think I could be submissive like that. I can see bringing the food to a man if he has been working hard all day providing for our family then of course. The least I can do is bring your food to you because you've been working hard all day but all that other sh!t no way. There's no reason for it.
Side note: His wife/ex wife came by the store last night. I wasn't scheduled to work but got called in and from where I was working we would be walking back and forth and talking. At one point I saw him talking to a lady and a boy and I thought about it but didn't want to dwell on it too long. About an hour later he asked me if I had seen his son and I said no. He said he wished I had been around so that he could introduce us. I asked him wtf is he thinking. His thinking was that he would just introduce me by name and say ***** this is *****. I told him no. I said and what do you think your wife would have said? I said if it was me and the shoe was on the other foot, I would want to know why the hell you're introducing our kid(s) to another female. He said he didn't think about that lmao. Sometimes men just don't think things through.