My EX recently told me that his GF of 2 weeks is moving in and that he can no longer see the kids at my place. Fine we find a neutral place but I don't want his GF around my kids so soon. Anyways he skipped his visit with the kids yesterday and said that I won't let him see the kids wich is so far from the truth. He said he will give me time to follow our visitation court order wich he has never followed. He said if I didn't follow it he would show up to my apartment and have me in contempt of court and arrested. I am documenting his missed visits and his missed calls or text to my son hoping it will help me in court. I want to go after full physical custody of the kids. My question is should I contact him at the end of every week to see if he wants to see the kids?? Atleast then it shows I made an effort. Or should I wait to see if he contacts me to set up a time to see the kids?? This way if he does show up with the sherrif I have proof I was not in contempt of court. Any advice would be great thanks.
on Jan. 28, 2013 at 7:00 AM