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Posted by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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How to move on? Its been 2 years and
I don't date don't want to I like being alone
But mostly its in the back of my head that
We will be together again I'm 32 in march
I was with him for 13 years on and of
Mostly on and we really screwed up the both
Of us hurt each other bad but we made each
Other so happy to idk I can never feel so
Open again we were so connected and so
Much love that he to is still single I'm sure
He got his toes wet but I know he loves
Me and I him but we can never be together
Again its awkward I just wish I could change
The past He made me feel like he was home
And I don't want to be with anyone eles
I guess ill be alone forever it sucks though need
Advice thanks
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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brieri
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 6:10 PM

 Hi and welcome to the group;

Time for some me time alone and think about what it is really want out of life.  I can relate to this.  When my ex decided to leave me, I had gone thorugh some old photos, and came across some pictures of me and another guy.  One I wanted to be with for the rest of my life.  I wanted the relationship to work.  Had I known what I knew what I went through with the divorce, I would have been able to stick it out with him at even a greater price!

Home3136
by on Jan. 28, 2013 at 6:31 PM
Thank you for responding I just feel like
I lost the love of my life my soul mate
It sounds cheesy I know but true I failed
And I know ill never get it back again it
Just sucks I'm only 32 and I will be alone
For the rest of my life I hope some day
Some one will love me as much as he did
He new all my ugly and still new that I was
A good person and my past is really bad
And we went throw such a crazy wild journey
And we have a son he will be 9 in march
His a great father amazing and we don't talk
We mostly text but idk maybe some day will
All be a family again in the mean time I
Stay at home read drink alone and want to be
A ultra sound technician so I really don't have
Time for extra stuff but thank you so much
For responding Its hard for me to tell my friends
How I love one man only and that's that
Death do you part tell about u where are u
From I'm from Connecticut I will be 32 in march
Only one child which is ok with me I'm
All set with child birth lol he has no other
Children just our child
amonkeymom
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2013 at 6:58 PM

Welcome to the group.

Just because you're alone now doesn't mean you will be forever.  Your feelings for him will eventually diminish and you'll be able to welcome someone new into your life.

Home3136
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 8:49 AM
Thank you for responding its been 2 in a
Half years I just try to keep busy but I just
Want to be loved again some day and I'm
Not ready at all I just hope I stop being
A chicken and let go already thank you :)
easinpc
by Gold Member on Jan. 29, 2013 at 9:01 AM

Hugs!!

steviechick
by on Jan. 29, 2013 at 1:41 PM

I've been alone for nearly six years now - I've only been divorced for just over a year.  The five years before that my ex was active duty and worked a 2nd job.  He was hardly ever home.   I have been able to find things to do to keep myself busy.  You are in a depressive mode.  Find things to do.  Force yourself out and see if you find a hobby or an interest to keep you motivated and moving.  You will be loved again.  You need to remind yourself you are worthy of another's love and commitment.  Until then, stay focused and try to be more happy about being divorced.

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