I met this guy last summer from a dating site, he happened to live on the same street as I did. Convenient right? Well we hit it off great. We started hanging out alot. Things at some point got physical. And even before that, I started getting feelings for him. I mean how can I not? He is cute, and he was basically the male version of me. Anyway I ended up for some reason giving my ex another chance and me and him stopped talking.
Well he got in touch with me shortly after my ex and I broke up again. We started hanging out. And all the feelings I had for him came rushing back again.We have been hanging out alot of the course of the last couple months... a few times where we were drinking and would end up just mking out or something silly.... Well the other night he texts me, and says "Do you want to go out for a platonic dinner?" I felt like why emphasize that? But ok. So he picks me up, dressed so nicely. Tells me he is taking me to that restaurant I liked so much. We are waiting for our table at the bar..he mentions him being my best friend at some point during the convo...we sit at our table. We talk about what we are getting, he orders for me....Then at the end of an amazing dinner, he pays for the entire thing..I am thinking that we should of split the bill...anyway....WE went out after and were drinking. Well I got pretty tipsy, and Im pretty sure he was too...he brought me home and I asked him to come inside. And the the next thing I know we are having sex....he spends the night. The next morning he wakes up and cuddles with me, rubbing my back with his fingers..my arms..playing with my hair. we just talk in bed for a bit and then he went home....now, here we are a few days later and you can tell that he has slowed down on his talking to me...even though a few hours after he left, he did text me and told me he had fun lastnight...I am sooo afraid of bringing up anything about him and I dating, or anything else...because he seemed like he made it clear we were just friends...but did he really?? Am I just thinking to much into all this?? Mind you I havent dated a man in I would say 7 years. Its not like we are young and dumb...he is 33 I am 29. I just dont know what to think...any advice??