I really appreciate all of the warm welcomes and encouraging words. Its nice to be able to talk to people who understand. My daughter, 3 years old, has a couple of cavities that need to be filled. UGGHHHH!!! She hates the dentist and fights, screams and cries the entire time even when its just a cleaning. The Dentist wants to do IV sedation for this procedure. My ex freaked out and said absolutely not. I resent that he thinks he can make that decision when he has never been to the dentist with her. I have had to endure the misery with her. I don't like the idea of sedation, it can be dangerous but I believe that they know what they are doing. They even bring in an anesthesiologist. I really wish that I could make decisions with out having to tell him, but I know that I can't do that.